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Tessa van Nes

'Working on stress and resilience has changed my life.'

About me

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For over 25 years, I held various leadership roles in large (mostly corporate) organizations. Incredible positions where I worked with amazing people and learned a lot.

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But to be honest? It was also quite tough at times.

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I felt responsible, wanted to do everything right, and worked incredibly hard. When the pressure increased, I pushed myself even further. The harder I worked, the more difficult it became to step back—and the more stress I experienced. My mind was constantly racing, I felt restless, became short-tempered and more emotional. My body was always ‘on,’ and relaxing became harder and harder.

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And that took its toll. On me, my surroundings, and my performance.

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My turning point

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In 2020, during the COVID-19 pandemic, I was treated for cancer. A challenging time, but also a turning point. I realized I didn’t want to continue like this. I needed to learn how to manage stress better so that I could perform well under pressure without running myself into the ground.

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I took a time-out and immersed myself in the science of stress—how it works, how it affects our brain and body, and, most importantly, how to manage it effectively.

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That’s when I discovered the power of biofeedback: stress is measurable.

 

With objective data, I could see exactly what triggered my stress and what actually helped increase my resilience.

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The impact

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Now, a few years later, I feel like a different person.

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My body is relaxed, my mind is clear. I recognize stress earlier and have the tools to restore balance. This allows me to make better choices, protect my energy, and stay in control.

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Stress isn’t necessarily bad—it helps us perform.

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But the key lies in how we deal with it. Thanks to the insights I’ve gained, I now experience less negative stress and feel more energetic, effective, and positive. Even physical complaints like neck and shoulder pain have disappeared.

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Why I do what I do

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If I had known 10 or 20 years ago what I know now, I would have been a better leader. That’s why I now help others manage stress smarter—so they can take control of their energy, perform better, and stop letting stress run the show.

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I believe everyone deserves less stress and more resilience!

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A few things to know about me

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🔹 I make stress measurable. Stress often feels intangible, but with biofeedback, I make it visible and understandable. This way, you can see exactly what’s happening and what works (or doesn’t).

🔹 I understand the corporate world. I know how demanding leadership roles can be and recognize the stress triggers within large organizations.

🔹 I believe addressing stress is a strength. Great leadership includes acknowledging that stress plays a role—and actively working on it.

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If you knew me, you’d know that...

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  •  I love to travel and explore Europe in my camper van.

  •  I laugh way too loudly—but I have a lot of fun doing it!

  •  I eat chocolate every day after dinner—non-negotiable!

  •  I walk in the dunes as often as possible—they’re practically in my backyard.

  •  I love singing. I once dreamed of becoming a singer, but luckily, reality caught up with me 😉.​

Would you like to know how stress is affecting your performance—and what you can do about it? Try the Stress Check-up!

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Phone number

+31(0)622044738

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